About Mary Toolan
👋 Hello. Welcome to my channel. 😊
I create educational videos for people who were bullied and rejected by their parents and siblings throughout their childhood and adulthood.
My content focuses on dysfunctional and toxic families and the role of the scapegoat child.
The scapegoat child is singled out to carry the shame of the lineage. The sick elders do this through constant shaming, invalidation, ridicule and gang bullying.
This abuse causes complex childhood trauma.
I help people understand what happened to them, unravel the complex dynamics and heal from the brainwashing and heartache.
All my content comes with a trigger warning.
The pain of being on the receiving end of decades of parental and family bullying is excruciating.
Healing is a LONG process.
Please be mindful of your mental health as you consume my content and pause or stop the videos if your nervous system is at capacity.
Sending you lots of good wishes. ♥️
Mary.